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AtEnEO@hEArT
nAkAkAiNis nOh ??? ndE kO nA ngA lam kUng AnOng gAgAwIn kO Eh!!!! hELp ???? :confused: :confused: :confused:
tado's_gurl
sigurado ka bang manhid?
baka naman akala mo napapakita mo,
pero baka naman yung ginagawa mo around dt
person is no different sa treatment mo sa
hindi mo gusto.

baka naman yung taong yan may gustong iba?
ganon kasi yun, pag may gustong iba,
walang napapansin sa paligid.

well, feeling ko dapat yung mga ganyan,
kino-confront.

...same here. i lyk this guy na i bet even
if we're friends, hindi nya malalaman kasi
masyado syang involved sa responsibilidad
nya sa skul at sa sarili nyang buhay apart
from the other ppl. tsk.

hirap.
pink n' blue
yup...hirap talaga..

there's this guy na friend ko(actually, he's more of a bestfriend of mine na)..yup..i fell in love with him..not so lang ago...

im pretty sure na he's bound to notice coz i do a lot of nice things for him....pero i think he just considers me as a good friend..parang chums lang...you know..barkada lang or something....pero i dont know if he's manhid or he knows pero he doesnt want me to know that he knows..ah basta! for me..he's manhid!!! help din!!!
Fire n' Shadow
Baka ayaw lang nila sa inyo. Baka lang.
oniKai
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Originally posted by Fire n' Shadow:
Baka ayaw lang nila sa inyo. Baka lang.


Nohh? Ay tamaan ako ah! Heto nakakarelate...

Basta mahirap na parang mayroon ding kababalaghang hindi ko ma explain!
pink n' blue
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Originally posted by Fire n' Shadow:
Baka ayaw lang nila sa inyo. Baka lang.


baka nga..siguro some mysteries are not supposed to be revealed talaga...
pink n' blue
QUOTE
Originally posted by Fire n' Shadow:
Baka ayaw lang nila sa inyo. Baka lang.


baka nga..siguro some mysteries are not supposed to be revealed talaga...
pink n' blue
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Originally posted by LauraAira99:
baka nga..siguro some mysteries are not supposed to be revealed talaga...



oops..what i mean is some SECRETS are not supposed to be revealed talaga..hehe.. biggrin.gif
GodlikeDemon
Quote: Baka ayaw lang nila sa inyo. Baka lang.

Pare, harsh ka... Pero may punto. wink.gif
Fire n' Shadow
Why do you keep saying that I'm harsh??
Flick
mahirap!! sad.gif Lalo na kung love na love mo talaga yung person... Pero beccause you REALLY DO love him/her, titiisin mo yun... That's if you REALLY LOVE HIM/HER.

Sabi nila ganoon daw yun. If you really love the person, happy ka na na ikaw lang ang nagmamahal kahit ONE-SIDED lang. Basta you know na nagmamahal ka, okay na daw yun. I actually can not understand this. Why would someone wait for eternity only to get devastated and disappointed?

I've honestly experienced something like this. And you know what i think of what they say? You will just end up OBSESSED, miserable, at magmumukha ka lang TANGA. In which case, i think nagre-reflect na hindi mo talaga ganoon ka love yung person... HAAY:D
cynnamon
nakakainis...

in my case, feeling nya ako pa ung manhid :eek:
m_girl
Uh, pano ba? Hirap eh... Lam ko na...



Chaket!

[ December 21, 2002: Message edited by: m_girl ]
AtEnEO@hEArT
ac2ally,, ganito yun.. 2 years ago, close pa kami.. tas nag fall me sa knya , then ung other friend ko (close din kami) mei crush din sa knya ... pero ndi nya cnabi sa akin kase daw baka magalit ako .... so ayun nalaman ko na lng bigla na super obsessed itong babaeng to sa mahal ko !!!! watever kaya !!! tas nagalit ako , tas gumanti sya cnabi nya sa mahal ko na crush ko sya .... eto namang manhid na mahal ko ... manhid na nga iniwasan pa ako !!! pero b4 ang sweet sweet nya ... ideal guy tlga eh !! hAay... tas untilnow luv ko pa rin sya ... nde ko na lng pinapakita... paano ko ba matatannggal ung impression na yun !!!! sad.gif :confused: sad.gif :confused: sad.gif :confused:
Fire n' Shadow
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Originally posted by AtEnEO@hEArT:
eto namang manhid na mahal ko ... manhid na nga iniwasan pa ako !!! pero b4 ang sweet sweet nya ...


Bwahahahaha!!! biggrin.gif

Oops. Sorry. sad.gif

Pero pag nangyayari ang ganyan... It's a sign. :eek:
tado's_gurl
nyahahaha!!! ang sama! tongue.gif

pero sadyang may mga taong ganon, kailangang tanggapin!
cris gee
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Originally posted by Fire n' Shadow:
Baka ayaw lang nila sa inyo. Baka lang.


Tamang tama.

Yun na yun.
Red GLittErfLY
its a lost cause! Ako rin, pero X na manhind. Na baliw lang ako... i just got hurt in the end. A girl needs to be understood. He was one insensitive BF. Argh!

Its like trying to kiss the mirror. Its smooth and cold. You emerge from the kiss and realize, you weren't kissing anyone at all. Feeling mo, magisa ka lang...


Maybe, you should talk to the person and ask ano ba talga. Coz i don't think anyone who loves his girl or her guy deserves to be left hanging, asking if he/she is loved. Alam mo yun? Kaya nga RELATIONSHIP..root word-relation. Although it is normal to feel unloved by other at some points. But more than SOME? hmm....ouch.
Red GLittErfLY
Nyek nyek....mali ata ako...kayo ba o hindi?

hehehhe..well, if hindi kayo...mas mahirap pa yun! tongue.gif good luck nalang sayo....masakit yan...

teka.....MAHAL MO BA TALAGA?
Manhind ba siya or talagang clueless lang?
Did you send signals...

To get the answers, you have to askt he questions.hehhehehe
NaningBelles
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Originally posted by AtEnEO@hEArT:
ac2ally,, ganito yun.. 2 years ago, close pa kami.. tas nag fall me sa knya , then ung other friend ko (close din kami) mei crush din sa knya ... pero ndi nya cnabi sa akin kase daw baka magalit ako .... so ayun nalaman ko na lng bigla na super obsessed itong babaeng to sa mahal ko !!!! watever kaya !!! tas nagalit ako , tas gumanti sya cnabi nya sa mahal ko na crush ko sya .... eto namang manhid na mahal ko ... manhid na nga iniwasan pa ako !!! pero b4 ang sweet sweet nya ... ideal guy tlga eh !! hAay... tas untilnow luv ko pa rin sya ... nde ko na lng pinapakita... paano ko ba matatannggal ung impression na yun !!!! sad.gif :confused: sad.gif :confused: sad.gif :confused:



try mo kayang batukan yung guy?
hehehe wink.gif
seryoso, baka akala nya nagbago ka na
baka akalain nya, dna pwedeng maging sweet
kayo ulit dahil nga crush mo sya

try mo kayang kausapin?
as in heart to heart talk ba?
baka bumalik yung lambing nya

go girl!
kaya mo yan! :cool:
aizah666
eto, may kwento ko..

when i was in 3rd yr (last yr.) nag bet kme ng bestfriend ko na manliligaw rin saken si EJ(this guy is soooo not my type...well,before..)..of course..wla sa plan yung seryosohin ko sya..for fun lng ganon (we're TOTALLY opposites..he's the average type & im not)...COCC sya nung time na un & ako hindi..so i got the fylng na matatalo ko sa bet since wla kme time to talk (w/c we have to do for me to work my thing..) kc bwal makipagusap ang mga cocc sa mga ndi COCC..so sbi ko frnd ko wag na lng..nweiz..di ko tlga sya trip..ts ngaung 4th yr..(fast forward ko na ha..) we got really close..as in biglaan lahat..i really mean BIGLAAN!!! sang araw kumalat nalang bigla sa buong skul na kame khit hindi nmn..since biglaan nga & sobrang kumalat na..walang nagawa ang pag deny ko..so naki-ride nalang kme ni EJ..until we got really really really close..o' nga pla..i have a bf..kya khit gustuhin nmin..wla kme mggwa..so finally..i got the rush to take the risk & leave my bf (hu loves me so much) for EJ..so finally, when i did...Ej,just didnt care...as in like...parang...WALA LANG...until now...WALA PARIN..ang stupid ko noh?..bsta masyado nang maraming nangyari sa 1 month naming pagsasama..feeling ko umabot kme ng 1 yr..pagpapanggap..sobrang daming naloko nmin na kame..pati ako napaniwala na rin nila...manhid sya...tsk tsk tsk..manhid...& galit ako...asar...inis..irita...sabi sken ng friend ko na barkada nya..apektado daw ako...pro pinipilit ko na hindi...hindi ako apektado...
cooooooookie
oh good! karelate ako dito dahil manhid din ako! im indifferent to love at wala akong pakialam.... mmmmm meron kayang nagmamahal sakin na di ko napapansin?

actually po kasi, yung ibang tao isa na ko dun, nagkukunwari lang na manhid. deep deep down they can sense that you like them di lang nila pinapahalata cos of friendship or baka nga d lang interesadong magka-lovelife.

i have this friend.. i think he likes me. mejo parinig kasi cia e.. tipong "ang hirap magmahal no, april?" basta.

how does it feel nga ba? :confused:
aizah666
badtrip lalo na kung hihiritan ka ng girl na dati nyang niligawan na kesyo "wag kang fylng girlfriend dahil ako niligawan last yr. ikaw hindi.." taena!!!!! tagos yun!!! ayun...hiniritan ko rin sya...nag ka issue pa tuloy..
pePPerMint
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Originally posted by cynnamon:
nakakainis...

in my case, feeling nya ako pa ung manhid :eek:


ditto. biggrin.gif
AtEnEO@hEArT
thanks ha!!! sayang sya!!!! chinito, na maputi, parang pwedeng pang model!!!! haay nako... should i just forget him???? pero mahirap tlga eh!!!! kase, madami na akong nging mahal nung tym na yun, ang bilis kung na let go!!!! bakit sya nde?????? is it bcoz nagpapakamartyr ako????? haAy.... thanks sa lahat ng naghelp!!!!
niwalgnatam
masakit nga talaga..
dapat sinusuklian ang pagmamahal, hindi binabale wala.
subukan mo pa ng konte, baka nasa iyo ang problema pero kapag wala pa rin e palagay ko wala na talaga... tumiwalag ka na.
blue journalist
Ang sama naman pala ng kaibigan mo… pero sadyang mayroon talagang ganung mga kaibigan na they just brush their friendship aside for the sake of a guy. But that shouldn’t be the case…

Mahirap magmahal ng manhid especially pag alam mong ginagawa mo na ang lahat lahat sa abot ng iyong makakaya sabay siya e hindi man lamang nararamdaman o hindi naaappreciate iyung ginagawa mo…

Pero di pa naman yata nangyayari sa akin iyan… At masasabi ko na ang mahal ko ngayon ay hindi manhid… smile.gif
taciturn
pabayaan mo shang maging manhid... magmahal ka pa din kahit wala xang paki sa pakiramdam mo.. at least u know how it feels to have loved someone... kahit masakit na walang shang alam with the way you're feeling towards him, axept it nalang... wag ipagpilitan ang sarili... it's his loss kung nde nya ma-realize na mahal mo xa... hnde mo naman kasalanan na nde nya alam eh... nde mo rin naman kasalanan na manhid xa... or baka naman he's just playing dumb... some guys can be really deceiving... kaya ang payo ko sayo eh, isipin mo muna... mahal mo nga ba tlga xa? cgurado ka bang pagmamahal yang nararamdaman mo at hnde obession, infatuation or lyk lang? as in romantic love...as in nde naplatonic... those are just some questions u have to ask yourself before saying na nakakainis magmahal ng taong manhid... ala lang... biggrin.gif
tHe_rEaL_mE
BADTRIP! badtrip talga... kainis kaya pag ganyan ung guy... kc we both knew na we loved each other tus deadma lng noh... he's just pretending na wala shang nararamdaman.. "HIS A GREAT PRETENDER"

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y cant it be...

y cant it be the TWO of us?
dawn_nicolai
hmmm... hirap nun... nakakapagtaka lang eh..khit alam na manhid... u stick to that person.. kahit it hurts you.. you love the person ...until you love no more..then you realize nahawa ka na pla sa kanya... naging manhid ka na rin...

:confused:
Surreptitious_Anonym
confusing...but otherwise crystal-clear

Confusing because you keep asking yourself if he/she is worth your time...or if he/she even knows you exist...

But also clear as crystal. you don't want him or her to know cos it might ruin the friendship, cause conflict, awkward moments, etc.

Why? 'cos I know...
lei-ann
ahay, onga, pero baka di naman manhid, baka wala lng talgang feeling para sa iyo. minsan we assume so much, na baka mahal rin tayo nung taong mahal natin, pero isip lang natin un, when we come face to face with that person, dun mo lang malalaman ung tunay na feelings niya sayo, sabi nila nasa mata daw yan, ung paraan ng pagtingin niya sa mata mo, ahh ewan, basta masakit na magmahal ng taong bato, pero hanggang pinili mo na mahalin mo siya, magiging masakit ang buhay para sa iyo..
QAM1001
grabe sakit sa ulo sa kakaisip ...pero kadalsan yung mga ganyan tao talgang wlang feeling na special just frendz lang cguro ganun namn kadlasan
kix
isa lang masasabi ko...

GOODLUCK! biggrin.gif
Av
I had been called "manhid", "bato", and "walang-pakiramdam" in both of my relationships. And i only had 2 relationships pa lang. So i guess i must be manhid.

Pero let me tell u that, even if parang walang pakiramdam ung mahal mo, mukha lang yon. May taong magaling talagang magtago ng totoo nyang nararamdaman.

QUOTE
The best way to overcome the fortress around a person's heart, is to hurt her with kindness.

-trust me
God Of The Underworld
Haay nakoww....another sucker.Join the club, dude. Marami tayo.
job0y
feeling INVISIBLE !!!
AtEnEO@hEArT
tagal ko ng inde nag post ah!!!! haay... ac2ally,,, ala na kong feelings sa knya!!!! haay.... ala lng....
popocatepetl
pano kung mahal mo ayaw na may nagmamahal sa kanya gaya ng pagmamahal mo? (romantic love ek ek)
Ang Kadete
pop, isa lang solusyon diyan. Maghintay... biggrin.gif
saankamannaroroon
Hay buhay... ganun pala ka-inlove ang girls. tongue.gif
saankamannaroroon
Advice ko:
- Goal no. 1: gawin mo siyang best friend
- Goal no. 2: Ligawan mo siya, samahan mo kung nag-iisa, mag-kwentuhan kayo, etc, etc.
- Goal no. 3: halikan mo siya sa cheeks sa birthday niya

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AtEnEO@hEArT
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Originally posted by BlueSky:
Advice ko:
- Goal no. 1: gawin mo siyang best friend
- Goal no. 2: Ligawan mo siya, samahan mo kung nag-iisa, mag-kwentuhan kayo, etc, etc.
- Goal no. 3: halikan mo siya sa cheeks sa birthday niya

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goal no. 1: inattempt kowh,., kaso bka magalit skn ung BEST FRIEND... close pa nman kmi nung beshfwend nya...

goal no. 2: yup, i did that, grabe.,. speechless ako nun!!! kase,., nagtetext sya nun,., na NR ako...

goal no 3: ohmigoD!!! nde ko mgawa un!!! nung huling bday na hinalkan ko xa 2 yrs. ago pa!!! pero the last time i did,., march 21!!!! kiLLiG mOmEnT!!!!!
++Artificielle++ ++Intelligence++
-->ella es mia! biggrin.gif

either manhid o wla lang pakialam. or worst, pinamumuka sayo na wala shang gusto.. hehe biggrin.gif
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