Hey.... Ano ba talaga ang gusto ng mga girls sa mga lalaki? Just Post dito! :eek:

probably, guys na hindi dominating masyado, hindi chauvinists. guys na who would respect them and wouldn't treat them as trophies

ano? well gusto pala ng mga girls na lalaking maingay o ano? sori cant understand your dialect talaga. heheh well bout the others?

Our chromosomes.

hehehe joke lang.

medyo hindi na ganon kauso yun bang mga girls na ang hanap e mga "g" na guyz....more on the attitudes na...im speaking for myself here ha, ewan ko lng sa ibang gurls, pro tingin ko mas gus2 ng mga girls ung mga guyz na open minded...un bang nde mahilig magselos....kse total t-off un e...para bang u don't trust d girl pag ganon...bkit borj, may liligwn ka na ba? basta pakabait lng kayong mga guyz, im sure my magkakagus2 sanyo, wag nyo lng pairalin yung pagiging tanga and boastful....( sori borj but i don't know you e)

pero physically....para skin kc gus2 ko maganda ung likod e.yun bang hindi naka slouch,smooth,and yung masarap sandalan.

hmmmmm. e pano kung puro blackheads yung likod ng guy, na parang pulang sandpaper ang dating? :confused:

takpan ang likod ng lalaki, at takpan ang mata ng babae.

well...i'm a girl...high school. uh. i can't say for other girls but for myself? decency..siyempre, the usual stuff - honesty...you know. beauty is on th einside, but doesn't the outside reflect th inside? of course a guy's gotta be clean...decent nga... i guess what i can really say for sure is ideals won't matter basta may tama yung guy...if you get me...

well...i'm a girl...high school. uh. i can't say for other girls but for myself? decency..siyempre, the usual stuff - honesty...you know. beauty is on th einside, but doesn't the outside reflect th inside? of course a guy's gotta be clean...decent nga... i guess what i can really say for sure is ideals won't matter basta may tama yung guy...if you get me...

well, juz 4 me, i want a guy hu is sensible and athletic type wid a brain!?...simple
marunong mgbsktbl

frendly & easy going... luciuos lips n nyc abs!!! & kinda homebody!!!

y, do u hve sumbody in mind, wat bothers u ba bout wat a gal wants?

[ May 17, 2001: Message edited by: blue_angel ]

aba, e kung mukha ba namang pulang sandpaper ang likod nya, e di tama, takpan na lng nya ang likod nya noh!heheheh... pero seriously it doesn't matter(preffered ko lng ung maganda ang likod) wat matters most is the ATTITUDE......agree????

I'm a girl who just graduated from highschool.


I think it really depends on the girl. There are typical type that most girls do like though.

:cool:
A good attitude and personality is important...who would like to spend hours with an ASSH*OLE?


Intelligence is a big plus...especially for smart girls...it is kind of boring talking with a scarecrow ("no brains!")


For the pysical naman:
Most girls in the Philippines like CHINITO and MESTIZO guys. Taller girls naturally would prefer taller guys. The height of a guy actually brings some kind of protected and safe feeling...

um...dami pa eh

Guys, bluestar knows what shes talking about!! For me, I look for specific things on top of the usual sought out traits. My dream guy posses a love for sports and video/pc games alike. Enjoys both hanging out at home and gimiking on weekends. Someone who lets me have time with the girls, I don't like guys who call too much or always want to be with you. Sobra yun eh. Hmm.. what else? JAPORMS . First thing I notice when I see a guy at the mall is his outfit, then smile, then the way he's acting towards those around him. So boys, dress nicely, smile and don't be mean

Also, it's better if the guy is taller than the girl because it will facilitate the relationship on a primal level.

Most of a human girl's pheromones are secreted from the scalp. This is why a girl's head and hair smells SO GOOD for us guys.

Being taller means that when you're together, these pheromones will constantly waft upwards to your nose, and all you will do is drool slack-jawed as the chemicals systematically shut down your intelligence... kidding.

bluestar, saan ka mag-co-college? i hope sa ateneo.

is it true that when a girl looks at a guy lots of times, she likes the guy? there's this girl kasi...

teka.. Chuck? girl?
di ba bakla ka

jollo, no comment. basta alam kong may girl na parating nakatingin sakin (i do not only mean "girl", pero girlsss as in marami...)

so, totoo bang kung gusto ka ng girl, madalas siyang nakatingin sa iyo?

Not necesarily. I know a girl who's always staring at me. I really felt uncomfortable, until a friend of hers told me that she hates my guts and always tries to make me combust by staring at me...

Now, I enjoy her stares, and make sure that I'm always within eyesight, just to show her everyday that I'm not on fire yet...

Chuckie, I should be going to Ateneo for college. My only problem is my stubborn mother who doesn't like the philippines. I am still hoping that by some miracle I can go back in time for orsem or at least relatively early. Please pray for me or something. Where you going? What year are you anyway?

Then, about that girl. It really depends sa girl eh. :cool:

blustar, incoming freshman din ako sa college, so parehong batch tayo. ateneo din ako... kung wala ka pang kilala na same batch mo, at least may kilala ka nang isa... ako.

well, all i can say about this girl, is that she likes to look at me esp when we are in a big group... kaso when i look back, she stops looking. why? she's pretty pa naman eh!

What do girls really want from guys?

It starts with a "t".

noun.

unique to the person.

once severed, can't be regained.

esep-esep! =)

[ May 28, 2001: Message edited by: Dearth ]

i'm an ateneo college graudu8 batch'2001, nakikigulo lang dito sa high school discussion board.....

Borj, you mean ano ba talaga ang hinahanap ng girl sa isang CRUSH? I'll admit, usually, i'll have a crush on a guy based on his physical appearance... his looks, his physique and the shoulders [sorry guys but that's the truth]. Iba iba yung type ko eh, may moreno, chinito, mestiso, di maintindihan ang lahi, kano, pinoy, hispanic. PERO madalas mestisong chinito ang eyes na boyish gumalaw with athletic physique and stance.

If he caught my attention at first glance, i'll unconsciously check out his attitude, his humor, his intelligence, kung maganda ang ugali niya. If masama ang ugali, walang humor, pikon ... hay, he'll be nothing more than somebody nice to look at and i'll lose crush on him. So it means, although looks are needed to catch my attention, inner qualities are needed to sustain infatuation.

BUT there are some times naman [less frequent] it's the other way around... i'll notice a guy because he's so funny or intelligent or nakakatunaw and touch ang pagkabait... because of that, i'll find everything about him cute even if he's not gwapo. But if di talga mapamahal ang mukha niya sakin kat anong mangyari... hay... he'll be nothing more than somebody i enjoy talking with and being a friend of. i'll lose crush on him.

So there, yan ang mga hinahanap ko sa isang lalaki para maging crush ko siya, para ma-infatuate ako sa kanya, para maloka ako sa tingin niya, para mahulog ako sa upuan ko kung dumaan siya! Pero tandaan niyo na crush lang yan... at mababaw.

Borj if you're asking anong hinahanap ko sa isang lalake para i'll fall for him... mahirap sagutin... ewan basta nahirapan akong sagutin! Basics nalang: great companion, good humor, cute [not necessarily trophy], bait... tama ang timpla.

dearth, begins in "t", once severed never regained....i think its "trust", agree ba o hindi?hehehehe

gleng naman aizah!

bat, may iba pa bang choices?

Chuckie. Thanks for your warming welcome. Some of my former batchmates are going to Ateneo and I know some people from Ateneo HS too, who are going to ADMU.

My only problem is that I might not go there afterall. My parents want me to study in another country. Darn!

I just hope I can go back to the Philppines soon and reach the first sem or if not...sana yun 2nd sem

cors mo?

dearth,sabi ko na nga ba trust un kso,may pumasok din na isa pang "t" e (my pgka green) hehheheheh

T: talino! i know lots of people who have that. lalo na kung matalino yung guy sa paghandle ng girl...

i love patricia!!!

hindi pwede talino. it doesn't fit the once severed can't be regained clause, diba?

wala lang...besides, most girls don't exactly break down doors simply for a smart guy.

we really don't necessarily like intelligent guys, but it helps a lot when he's smart... be it street smart or in conversations or whatever, it's more fun to be with someone who knows what he's talkin about without being nerdy or wussy.

as for looks, we often first look at the guys who are taller than us... syempre weird naman nun kung halos magkasingtankad lang kayo... like, girls wear heels and platforms diba?! nice set of teeth is good, and so is a nice smile. we definitely like it when a guy is well groomed... kahit tousled look yung dating, basta ba naman wlang dandruff diba. and kahit hommie yung porma, at least clean, not ragged na parang binasura. and oh yeah, i read it somewhere that most girls do a double take on the guys who smell good because the sense of smell is sorta like a sexy dude detector or sumthin. so better stock up on your lizsports and davidoff's!

cars are definitely plus pogi points. although it's not really a must for the guy whom we go out with, it's just an added bonus. same with a good grasp of english. it can ba a major turn on, i tell you that. but if the guy seems to be like the type na paconyo that u know he really can't wing it... i suggest that he drop it. he's out for a major crashdown. like what i said, it's only an advantage to have, but not a must

on the unphysical level... i guess it all boils down to chemistry. we may have our own set of ideals in a guy (personally, i like smart, maangas, happy-go-lucky types but can be serious with some issues and matters... contradicting i know!), but we can always drop them when we meet someone who may be the total opposite of our dream guy, yet totally connect with him.

Which all boils down to this: Guys will never know what girls will want from them at any given moment. So the thread contains patterns of what some girls want, but in the end, it's still the guy who hunts, and the girl who tends.

I dunno if this is too much to ask, but this comes from my own experience as well as my friends':
Looks-It is just a bonus, although of course, a good-looking guy makes your head turn and attracts you instantly right? This sounds cliche but it's really true: if he doesn't have at least half a brain to go with it, or a nice personality, he can really turn ugly in a girl's eyes. Nakak turn off kasi kung dumb or a**hole ang guy eh. Anyway, as long as you know how to present yourself be it in clothing or confidence, gumgwapo ka din.

Car-another added bonus, just for convenience's sake. There's nothing wrong if the girl is the one with the car in the relationship...

Personality-a girl needs a guy whom she knows she can count on, and someone that cares about her genuinely. Someone who likes to hang out and chill and stuff with her, where you guys can just talk for hours... Knowing that the guy will always be there as a FRIEND can make all the difference in the world. yun ang major pogi points!

If I was still in Manila I would agree that a good grasp of English is good too, but there's nothing wrong with exchanging ideas in our native tongue--pero none of the "salitang kalye" kind coz I would be just like "uh..pardon?"
Gaaaah I am just saying that because ever since I arrived here in the US, I truthfully admit that I've never went out with a Filipino or even any asian...for some reason I'm not attractive siguro or mahina ang arrive ko sa kanila, lol.

haaay.....some guys have all the fun and luck with women. paano naman kami???
what do women want na nga ba?

why don't you watch the movie by mel gibson?

however, all anyone can learn from that movie is it's still a mystery...

tama ka dyan rockerbaby....but then again, i personally know of many women (very prim and proper and some very much married, mind you) who gush out their fantasies on Mel Gibson...whatta lucky guy. by the way, i've seen the movie. what women want is still a mystery but had to admit some guys have all the luck without any effort at all. yun lang! :cool:

solo eagle,mron din forum about wat women want,nasa anything goes yata un e....la lng...cge ciao!!!!

well i recently watched "what women want" from an ACA video tape.

I remember that the character mel gibson played was very much "loved" by the women after he knew what they were thinking... like it was as if he was "attuned" to what women really like... he was being sensitive to their feelings, listening to them, and thinking like what a woman thinks.

and in the middle of the movie, the coffee-shop girl thought that mel gibson was GAY just because he possessed these characteristics which are of the "feminine" side.

does this prove that women "love" guys who are in touch with the "feminine" side even to the point that these guys are considered GAY?

napag-esep-esep lang....

That explains why girls can be such good friends with gay guys--because they are so intune with them and understand them more than straight ones ever would (even their bfs). Sometimes it does go to a point where a girl hurts because the girl has fallen deep for the gay guy.

Remember the scene where the counselor tells Mel Gibson something about how in all her female patients all they say is how they wished their husbands understood them more? Nuff said.

So is it really possible for a girl to fall for a gay guy even if she knows that the guy may not return/reciprocate the love?

and... saan mas attracted yung girls (given the same looks):
1. typical guy who is maporma, looks cool, makes pa-cute to the girls, loud, extroverted.
2. the simple guy who is quiet, a good conversationalist, sensitive, "good boy" image, a little introverted (but not quite)

In short, the "Cool" Guy or the Gentleman?

Basta di jolog, pare.

Girls like the guys to be themselves. Yun ang sabi ng girlfriend ko, and we've been together 2 years.

Di mo naman talaga ma-please lahat eh, basta yung mahal mo, ma-please mo at happy ka. Di naman kailangan ng away o ng halik o anything. Di mo kailangan mag-pacute. Basta natural lang.

Parang kasama mo kaibigan mo, showing all your aches and your pains, also all your joys and your happiness.

Show your true self. I'm sure na mas magugustuhan ka ng girls kung di ka maarte. Parang pag ayaw natin ng maarte na chick, diba? Yung maraming pasikot-sikot? De siguro, ayaw rin nila na maarte tayo.

Chukie.
It really depends sa girl nga.
It's like asking what kind of dish does everyone like...or music, books...

We are all different and thus we all have unique tastes...hehe

Even with thoes two defintions, it really depends on the way the person treat the girl as well...and the "chemistry"...

Chuckie.
It really depends sa girl nga.
It's like asking what kind of dish does everyone like...or music, books...

We are all different and thus we all have unique tastes...hehe

Even with thoes two defintions, it really depends on the way the person treat the girl as well...and the "chemistry"...

personally, i like guys who are quite reserved, sensitive, and conservative. i like conversationalists, and ones who stands up for what they believe in, but at the same time, respects the opinions of other people. cool din for me and mga guys na doesn't go for things just because it's "uso" or in the limelight. guys who is not afraid to express themselves and be who they are are the ones i really like. kung pwede nga yung may pagka-"non-conformist" eh! gusto ko rin yung SMART, magaling magsalita, and may sense kausap.ano rin pala, masarap kausap and masayang kasama. may sense of humor kumbaga

in terms of physical appearance, i tend to go for guys who are cute, may killer smile and maganda and set of teeth, maganda and conservative manamit, ganda hair, and maganda yung speaking voice. race isn't really that important. i don't really care whether he's chinky-eyed or mestizo, or moreno or whatever, but the one im crushing on right now is kinda chinito. basta decent, clean, smart and sophisticated tignan, tapos!

also, i like OLDER guys. i dunno why...

tama si gamma_zeta_princess. there are some who fall for gay people, and it's really hard for those who are in that particular case. it seems like impossible for the guy (who's gay) to notice them. how tragic...

[ July 21, 2001: Message edited by: hunnie ]

[ July 21, 2001: Message edited by: hunnie ]

ehem!

well, touched naman ako... seems kasi girls fall for the good-looking types eh....

to chuckie: what do you mean "touched" ka?!

and, not that im speaking for every girl in the world out there, but it is quite true that girls usually go for good-looking guys, but that thought doesn't apply all the time, you know...

Well, if you're hurt by the cold, vicious practicality of it all, you can ease your pain by rationalizing that it's only a part of evolution. Natural selection, it's called.

Girls will naturally select a guy who has most, if not all, of the best characteristics. That's what we got from the monkeys.

HOWEVER, being humans of erudition, girls will sometimes override this genetically implanted protocol if a guy has a massively redeeming quality.

I'll leave you to interpret that.

I am not making sense. I will eat Yakisoba.

Spicy Chicken.

huh?!? :confused:

hunnie: la lang, na-touch ako sa mga sinabi mo kasi i thought most girls fall for those cute or hunky guys.

but i think mas kinikilig yung girl kung mas cute or hunky yung guy eh... rather than the guy who's mabait or friendly or sensitive or thoughtful...

and it's really tragic if a girl loves a guy and the guy does not notice... i can imagine the scenario... that's why i was "touched"... or affected, the better word, in a way.